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As I write my book, “Becoming La Jefa”, I’ve had the chance to sit with my lived experiences and reflect on how much my father shaped me: the way I moved in corporate America, how I navigate entrepreneurship, and how I show up for my community. Papi influenced every corner of my world. Sam Haiman was more than a supporter—he was a force. The one babysitting when my kids were little so I could focus on getting new clients. The one guiding me on RFPs and business decisions. The one attending networking events by my side and “reading the room” like only a South Bronx native with grit, street smarts, and unparalleled charm could. I not only admired him—I relied on him. And though he’s not here physically, I’ve found peace in “listening” to him when I need clarity or strength. When I’m about to lead a webinar, speak at an event, or dive into community work, I whisper: “Vamos, Papi… let’s go.” He’s my guardian angel now. Here’s a poem I wrote a year after he passed away. Today, I share it again—because unconditional love like his never fades: Damn, I’m so freakin’ lucky. My Papi was something else. Yes, that handsome son of a gun in the picture on the shelf. Magnificent. Yes, magnificent! In every sense of the word. So much knowledge to share. Many monologues I heard. Politics, religion, literature. Social justice, music, sports. Arts and culture, history. Conversations of all sorts. Papi loved people – no matter color or creed. A citizen of the world. Looking out for those in need. He was the ultimate advocate Unhinged, prepared, effective. Called upon for insight and action. The outcomes always impressive. Thoughtful, kind, generous – He’d bring me gifts ‘just because’. Bracelets, earrings, necklaces. All remind me of what I’ve lost. My dance partner at weddings, My cheerleader and sounding board. I’m so lucky to have had you, Papi. I will love you for evermore. Sharing a few special photos of us—from baby steps to dance floors. Gracias, Papi. For everything. I promise I’ll keep on dancing until we meet again. #URBANDER #Mindset #CelebratingPapi