When a Promotion Isn’t Aligned with Your Goals: How to Navigate the Path Back with Purpose
This week, a conversation with a colleague led us to an interesting topic: unwanted promotions. It made me wonder how often, with the best intentions, leaders promote individuals into roles that ultimately don’t align with their career goals.
How often do we, as leaders, focus on someone’s immediate potential or the needs of the organization without considering whether the promotion aligns with their long-term aspirations? Do we take the time to ask if this step serves their professional journey as much as it serves the team’s objectives?
When you select someone for a promotion, do you take into account their long-term goals? It’s a powerful question that can guide us toward more meaningful, fulfilling career paths for our teams.
Receiving a promotion is often seen as a milestone in career growth—but what happens when that new role doesn’t align with your career vision? Sometimes, promotions come as well-intentioned pushes from leaders who see potential in us, but the reality is that not every step up is the right step for every professional. If you’re feeling out of place or that this role is taking you away from your career goals, here’s how to proactively correct course without feeling trapped:
Acknowledge the Mismatch: Start by being honest with yourself about why the role doesn’t align. It’s okay to recognize that a well-meant promotion isn’t the right fit for where you want to go. Self-reflection on your long-term career vision is critical here, allowing you to approach the situation with clarity and confidence.
Have a Transparent Conversation with Leadership: It may feel awkward, but an open discussion with your manager or HR is essential. Frame it constructively: thank them for the opportunity and share how your goals might be better served in a different capacity within the organization. This honesty often leads to more support than expected.
Propose an Alternative Path: Come to the table with solutions. Whether that means reshaping your responsibilities, supporting the transition of someone else into the role, or even revisiting your previous position, showing commitment to the organization’s success is crucial. Leaders value team members who are self-aware and open about their career alignment.
Use the Experience to Refine Your Career Roadmap: Think of this phase as an informative detour. Reflect on what you’ve learned about your ideal work and role style, and apply this insight to guide your future decisions more confidently.
Don’t Feel Stuck; Take Ownership of Your Path: Taking a step back or sideways doesn’t equate to failure. It’s an act of self-advocacy and alignment with your authentic goals. The best career journeys aren’t always a straight path up—they’re aligned with growth, purpose, and long-term fulfillment.
Feeling out of alignment is a sign of self-awareness. Embrace this moment to fine-tune your direction and stay committed to a path that genuinely fulfills you.
Cheers!!!
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Yes, honestly, there was a time when I wanted a promotion, but it turned out to be a detour to something better. The people I was working with were toxic and unethical; they didn’t align with my values. My hunch was right when I later heard rumors from former colleagues. I still remember what the client said: he wanted to promote someone who wasn’t good with numbers. When I joined a new company in September 2020, my senior manager offered me a promotion to handle escalation calls because I had the lowest number of escalations in our department, which had hundreds of people divided into several teams. I was ready to take the leap and thought it through carefully. She made it clear that there wouldn’t be a salary increase, and I was okay with that. I still have the soft copy of the email she sent me. Interestingly, I ran into my former managers while visiting their office to offer them insurance last month. It was a surreal moment, seeing them again in a different context. I would really like to visit them again. 💙 #ePProud