The metrics are a distraction from the man you came here to be

You’re winning.

But you’re drifting.

Chasing growth.

Stacking milestones.

Living by numbers that impress everyone but mean nothing to your soul.

You’ve built the life.

But somehow, you’ve lost you.

You tell yourself you’re doing it for your family.

For your future.

For freedom.

But behind it all?

There’s fear.

→ Fear of slowing down and having to feel.

→ Fear of letting go of the identity that got you here.

→ Fear of finally facing the question you’ve been avoiding

“Is this everything I desire, am I being all of me?”

Because you’ve ticked the boxes…

But something still aches.

And it’s not burnout.

It’s not boredom.

It’s disconnection.

Disconnection from the man you came here to be.

Here’s how it shows up…

→ You’re in the room, but your mind is already in the next meeting.

→ You check your phone more than you check in with yourself.

→ You say you want peace - but your calendar screams chaos.

And when the noise finally quiets?

That’s when it creeps in.

Not as a breakdown.

Not as a crisis.

But a subtle discomfort.

→ The kind that shows up when you’ve ticked every box…and still feel restless.

→ The kind that whispers “You’re off track” - even though no one else can see it.

→ The kind that makes you question why the high of winning never lasts.

It’s not loud. But it’s constant.

A quiet knowing that won’t go away.

Because it’s not about what’s missing out there.

It’s about what you’ve buried in here.

You were never here to be impressive.

You were here to be real.

To live from depth.

To lead from alignment.

To be fully alive in the life you’ve already built - without the performance.

That’s the invitation...

To stop distracting yourself with more.

And start discovering who you actually are.

Because no metric can measure that.

But you can feel it.

And if you feel it now?

That’s your sign.

Fraser