How to Network at Big Events

In today's society, social networking is essential, even in the business world. We can make connections, find mentors, share our thoughts and experiences, and ask for advice - well outside our geographic area. This helps us expand our options enormously to tap into talent, advice and experiences we would never have before. And as valuable as online networking can be, as we all know there still is no substitute for in person networking. Many professionals shy away from networking, for many reasons. It’s too much effort, they feel awkward or inauthentic trying to connect with a perfect stranger, and at large networking events, it can seem overwhelming to try to figure out how to tackle a room. Here are some tips that can help you.

• Connect on the personal level first.  

Set a personal goal for yourself for each event. It could be as simple as leaving five business cards with 5 new people, talking to a certain number of people at each break out session at a conference, or meeting the speaker you were excited to hear by introducing yourself afterwards to them. Next, write down and think about 2-3 personal things you would be willing to share about yourself at the event that you could use to connect with them about in a conversation. A recent movie you saw, one of the speakers you are excited to hear from and why, a local attraction you are excited about visiting at the location of the conference. Come up with things that would help you initiate a conversation with someone in the buffet line for example. And make them personal things, not just about business. People connect with people, and bringing up or talking about something of a personal nature during the course of the conversation can be a breath of fresh air at a conference as well as allow you to develop a more lasting bond with someone if you find you have something in common personally with them.

Action tip: First, think about the last event you attended and what you would do differently. Would you talk to more people? Would you go prepared with business cards? Set small, achievable goals for yourself for the next event you attend. Second, write down 2-3 things you think would be good conversation starters that almost anyone could relate to using the examples above.

• Initiate conversations with thoughtful questions. 

Some of us are nervous about talking to new people, and some of us even if we’re not nervous, don’t look forward to it. At the beginning of the event, it’s better to dive in and rip off the band-aid. If you take the initiative right off the bat, it will get the ball rolling for you and the momentum going for the rest of the event. Others who are nervous themselves will be glad you spoke up. To help you dive in, before the event prepare a few thoughtful questions to ask new contacts. This will help you and your new contact to avoid any awkward silence after introducing yourself. Try questions like "What brings you to this event?", "What are your biggest challenges in your industry?”, “Did you hear speaker X, what did you think?", "What do you like about your job?”, “What do you think of the latest trend in our industry-XX (insert whatever that is here)?” Using thought provoking questions can help you initiate a more interesting and engaging conversation, and lay the foundation for a stronger connection long term.

Action tip: Prepare at least five questions to ask new contacts at your next big event and practice with a friend or family member. Ask for their feedback, and practice until you feel that you can ask the questions naturally. When the conversation wraps up and you take their business card (always make sure you get their card so the ball is in your court and you can follow up as appropriate), send them an email and connect with them on LinkedIn right away, that same day if possible.

• Be flexible.

We can't expect for everything at a business event to go exactly as we practiced or imagined. And you never know what you will get out of an event either. Perhaps it was an outdoor event but it rained-that’s a topic to discuss to connect with someone new while you’re running back to the building for cover. Perhaps you couldn't meet anyone new because it was small event that got cut short-try to reconnect with people you know and ask them what’s new at work for them. Maybe the speaker was boring-perhaps you can drum up some new business for your organization by talking to someone at the event instead. Don't let expectations not being met discourage you! Use each event as a learning experience and try to draw from them to make better choices about the next one. A personal story: I spoke at a small alumni event years ago and afterwards, received no sign ups for a program I was offering. None! I was so disappointed and thought the event was a bust. A week later, the director at a local university’s MBA program contacted me to work with their students as a result of seeing the promotion for that event. That contact turned into one of the largest contracts I had for my business to date. You never know what will come out of an event.

Action tip: Think of how you can make lemonade from lemons if you have to...

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