Today has been #SingleParentsDay "Despite 1 in 4 families being led by a single parent, single parent families are often overlooked or misunderstood. Single Parents Day on March 21 is a chance to celebrate the love, resilience, and strength of single parents while challenging the unfair stigma they face."
I have been a single parent since my partner at the time, changed his mind about having a baby after a year of badgering me to fall pregnant; I was four months pregnant at the time. So since 1996 I have gone it alone. 10 years later I found myself doing it again.
Two kids, two dads a decade apart, yet I have never felt any way about being a lone parent - a brimming sense of pride and resilience filling the void. Loved proving the naysayers, narcissists and nasty-minded people wrong. My oldest went on to Uni and graduated with excellent grades. The second is at Uni. Me myself? Well, compared to many single mums, to say I am thriving would be an understatement. I've never had one job; one source of income just isn't enough when it is only your income keeping a roof over your children's head. Creativity, boundless energy, a positive mindset and a willingness to try new things - including dressmaking, hairdressing, DIY, plumbing, electrical, car mechanics and construction work too!!
Don't get me wrong, it has been tough but I believe my experiences have made me the resilient, resourceful, independent, confident, self-sufficient successful social entrepreneur, mum and woman I am today.
Big up all single mums! We got this!!!
If there are any single mums who need a pep-talk, a shoulder to cry on, some advice or whatever, know that you can always call on other single mums - including myself!!! You are not alone.
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